Cover of Borrowed Eyes by Dr. Lili Castille

Borrowed Eyes

Borrowed Eyes: Discovering Your Best Self Through Others' Eyes

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A gentle, innovative approach to understanding yourself, building confidence, and feeling a genuine sense of belonging — through the compassionate eyes of the people who see you clearly.

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In this book, you'll discover:

A gentle, innovative approach to understanding yourself, building confidence, and feeling a genuine sense of belonging — moving beyond self-criticism to embrace the perspectives shared by family, friends, and colleagues who see you clearly.

  • Tools for handling imposter syndrome, masking, and mimicry.
  • Reflective exercises for identity, self-doubt, and building resilience.
  • Guidance for navigating social media and family influences on self-image.

Plus: real-life stories, practical exercises grounded in the latest research, and prompts designed to weave affirmation and understanding into every part of your life.

Whether you face challenges with self-doubt, imposter syndrome, identity, or the unique ways your mind works, Borrowed Eyes offers tools to cultivate a more compassionate and affirming view of yourself.

Recognize your strengths and challenge old narratives with Borrowed Eyes.

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176 pages, published May 2025 — part of the You, Me & AuDHD series.